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3 Signs the No-contact Method is Working

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Binaaa (2 days ago)
How about if he watches my Instastory. Been broken up 4 months and NC at all. Why is he doing that? To keep me as a friend?! Any thoughts? Thanks 🙏
Christopher Brooks (4 days ago)
Damn that's good
Carol Loraine (5 days ago)
Do homework on Narcissists. And if any Red Flags apply? Run!! Never look back! Beware of diseases!
Alejandro Rosa (8 days ago)
Its been a week and she started calling me 7 times a day and she got the nerve to message me on twitter lol
Cbear 25 (10 days ago)
You're good! This applies to guys and ladies. Thanks! 😘
Chriscelia Edwards (10 days ago)
I Love ♥️ this Channel
Nadhia Gurrola (11 days ago)
He is a naughty little man
Nicole Tobey (12 days ago)
Hi Chaz, It's been 7 weeks no contact and the only thing he's done is unblock me on facebook. He slowly let go over many months, recently was found kissing a woman that tried to come in between us when we were together (we were broken up when they kissed), and in hindsight of all he's said and the way he's acted, it feels like reaching out to him will be on deaf ears. He has low self esteem, grew up with very little affection, moved out at 15, had a child on purpose at 18, had a toxic and volatile 19 year marriage (I was his first long term relationship after his divorce. His divorce decree actually came a couple months after we met and were seeing each other). AND he has an avoidant attachment style. He has said many painful things like: "Why do you love me?", "I wish you'd meet someone else", "You need to move on" and this past November when I asked him in a text "Do you love me anymore? Yes or no" his response was "Farewell no". The pain is the worst I have ever experienced. I'm 46 and have never lived through such pain. It feels worse than death. Not discounting people grieving over someone that has died but I have never felt this agony. However, I AM a lot better than even 3-4 weeks ago-no more cold surges in my chest, no more dry-heaving, no more shakiness, and my focus is much better. I've joined a hiking group, the gym, am now volunteering at our local animal shelter which I've been wanting to do for years, am journaling, doing positive affirmations, smiling in the mirror to myself, and am socializing more. My counselor has told me two weeks in a row that I am doing amazing. So, I recognize that the hardest pain is behind me but of course, I still miss him tremendously, cry, and life is not the same. I miss my best friend. I know that writing the letter should be more for me than getting back together but I still want to reconnect so much. Timing is so questionable right now. I genuinely believe that NOW is the time to send the letter and not wait 3 months (which would be early/mid February). I think this because of where he was a few months ago and now 7 weeks of no contact/positive memory resurgence, and my self growth. What is your opinion on the timing? Thank you SO VERY MUCH for your help and guidance! Much appreciation, good vibes, and love, Nicole
francisco gonzalez (12 days ago)
ive been going no contact for 4 days with a narcissistic girl i barely meft abot 3 months ago. refused to have sex with her for the reason that im not a fuck boy. the results are looking good hope yall can keep your heads up. ✌💪🙌🙏
Lisa Vines (13 days ago)
🤣🤣
Gillian Moody (14 days ago)
He hasn’t contacted me, except to respond to me, every few months.
Kilig and Games (15 days ago)
What if we’re both playing the no contact game 😅
TheSnowFoxParty (14 days ago)
Good point lol
Celestia Carson (15 days ago)
What if I dont have fb and have no interest in looking at his fb then how would I know hes doing the subliminal thing?
Thamsanqa Dube (16 days ago)
No contact= done with bullshit. If you're doing it to take control that's just plain manipulation and mind games, it ain't right even when it's directed at a player
Brooklynn Skyy (16 days ago)
So what if he views my insta story is that considered subliminal?
lewis robinson (17 days ago)
Playing games for little kids ... I’ll just say fuck it
anime fan girl 101 (18 days ago)
lol no contact means no CONTACT. that means NO social media, blocked calls.
Egg Rollz (18 days ago)
This girl sent me nudes then told me to fuck off when I tried to buy her food this is how I know I shifted into a parallel reality because in the reality im from this if she sends you nudes that means shes interested and no girl turns down food even if shes not into you cause lowkey girls are always hungry if anyone can help me get back to my reality please respond to this comment
john22312 (19 days ago)
Yea it’s working alright right with another guys dick in her mouth
Null & Void (19 days ago)
Sometimes no-contact is just giving someone time to miss you. Imagine how boring life would be if you never wondered. Also, some people are just busy with real life shit. Don't always assume it's a game. Only insecure people will throw a tantrum. People who are being productive and are confident won't mind not speaking to someone for days because they have their own shit to worry about.
ClipperCuts Tv (19 days ago)
📢Don't let them draw you out.
Steve Chevy (20 days ago)
Some ones playing so crazy ass techno out side my house holy shit it's kinda badass
No contact works
Kizzi Kimani (22 days ago)
I just experienced pop up on 2days ago... I said hi and I got very bad eye like am alright...
Randy Flores (25 days ago)
Sometimes the best revenge is not giving an answer, you see silence is never misquoted
youngbull 301 (25 days ago)
Why tf is he helping women but not men
Queen Tiva bryant (26 days ago)
Every body is not on social media
Liam Parker (27 days ago)
I'm no contact and my ex is trying to make me jealous on social media with pics at the club and commenting on boys posts , I've stopped looking but I think she is over it despite messaging me before saying she was over me
Shelly Meador (1 month ago)
What if they move out of state? Could no contact bring them back?? Please let me know
Charlie O'Callaghan (1 month ago)
For my ex I dumped them and went no contact after they talked about not being interested in me. So I took control back, dumped them, and then they try to say “sorry my phone was dead” which is the reverse method in the video. I’m so proud that I gained control and it hit my ex in the face for it
Pamela Cooper-Billips (1 month ago)
Damn, I love you!❤️
jnanesh jaan (1 month ago)
I hav blocked her number..is it okay during no contact ?
Tiffany Johnson (1 month ago)
Ohh he does look good in blue. Ok
Angela Stewart (1 month ago)
Thank you because I'm on day 3 and he text me and did Exactly what you said. Tried to flip that on me. Sorry didn't work still no contact. 👍🏾
Michell Joseph (1 month ago)
When someone break up with me and I didn’t want it, I hate that person and I don’t play games so I just cut em off for a very long time years that is
Ocean UL (1 month ago)
Your vids make me feel better
Lucila Pereira (1 month ago)
Funny story. No contact never worked for me... A dude flake on me and I'm ignoring him. It's so haaaaaard...
Thejonez (1 month ago)
In the olden days its called da silent trmnt
Vershante Hill (1 month ago)
That blue looks great on you. Yellow and orange would too.
Jazmyn Adams (1 month ago)
Bro what do we do when they have they kid contact you? ( there kid not yours)
crystal beauty (1 month ago)
Thank you appreciate
Threec Turner (1 month ago)
lmao
SimplyK! (2 months ago)
Did he delete the other no contact method vids?
MasterMindTV (2 months ago)
Why everybody so mad about this method it’s basically like two people working on themselves but may contact every blue moon but they know they have the contact with each other 😂😂
Love Life (2 months ago)
Obsession is a mental disease.
samotbrandon (2 months ago)
(I don't know why this video popped up but oh well) You made some valid points. The main way to know that it's working is to not care if it's working. Put the person that it was necessary to use it on in your rear view mirror permanently. NEVER look at their posts or anything that has to do with them. They don't exist.
Mrs.Julio Jones (2 months ago)
Pop up at my house at the gym I go to like wtf!!
Focused and fabulous (2 months ago)
I can’t find your old no contact video’s 😭
serbia love (2 months ago)
You are beautiful..
Victoria Cruz (2 months ago)
Lol I had a guy say to me..." I thought u were a Godly woman who then would forgive" I blocked him lol
libra35 (2 months ago)
Lol I’m shook. My boyfriend blocked me after a fight so what did I do? Popped tf up
Mary Motherofgod (2 months ago)
He’s ELVIS !!! DEAD 💀
Mary Motherofgod (2 months ago)
ITS WORKING MY EARS HAVENT HEARD A LIE IN MONTHS. ALL THAT BULLSHIT IN MY EARS FROM THAT DBAG SURPRISED I DIXNT GET A FUCKEN EAR INFECTION LOLO I LIKE POSITIVE ENERGY THESE CATS R PATHETIC GOOD LUCK TO HIS SUCKER/SUPPLY
Alegna Rolyart (2 months ago)
My no-contact looks like this: I block your number in my phone and on FaceBook. I'm done!
Steven Zissimos (2 months ago)
So I ended my friendship with a flakey friend about a month ago now and I haven't contacted her since. I recently came across her Instagram and she changed her bio to "Keep it real in a world of fake". Subliminals much ?? 😂
Michael Wright (2 months ago)
Im gob smacked that people pay for this 90% of the comments that i’ve seen from youtube coaching channels are all negative.No contact is BS l.They also all tell you to focus on yourself and better yourself and make new friends.Most of the people cone on here to get there exes back.Not to be told something they already know
Brenda Croteau (2 months ago)
He has a new facebook page with his name but he saying he is a girl not falling for it no no
Mary Motherofgod (3 months ago)
Stick a fork in me I’m DONE SON LOLOL LOVE UR SHOW 💕💕
Clorox Bleach (3 months ago)
A man that teaches women how to fuck over men more effectively, what a shame.
Ooo Ooo (3 months ago)
What about if he keeps calling you from different phone numbers? But doesn't say anything when you answer the phone. Silence then he hangs up.
Pun Jab I (3 months ago)
If they do not contact you, you still stay in no contact!
Presidential Suite (3 months ago)
My no contact is DOA.....RIP! I carry on. Once I go ghost, you had your last chance.
nutmeg1096 (3 months ago)
What about getting obvious fake accounts messaging me on Facebook? Thing is, I don’t think I was talking to him but it was clearly a give away when these guys knew things about me they I never told them and isn’t available online. WTH is that shhh, especially when I think it’s his friend or friends.
Shawn S (3 months ago)
For me the no contact method turned into her getting pregnant by a deadbeat after just 2 months and her coming back to try and use me as a friend 🤣
Janice caid (3 months ago)
😂😂😂 I swear I don't even understand what "No contact" means bc I been "Ghosting" since I was a teenager so it's kinda normal to me...I lose interest in topics and people kinda fast that's why I crave excitement bc I know "ME" and once I lose interest I can't reignite that flame to save my life 😐.I think that's why people go so hard and gotta do so much to regain my attention whether it's good or bad 😂😂😂
Im doing a no contact now. However, if we have team building activities with my supervisor, my ex gf is ther. And she also wants to join with us. The question is, why is she joining or she is present in our activities? .. But she is mad at me... and he loves his new guy. So, why?
Focused and fabulous (3 months ago)
First week of no contact. I’m having up’s and down’s . One moment I feel great the other moment I go check if he texted me then I block his number. Then I unblock😭
Sara K (4 months ago)
No contact means no social media or anything! Bye! I've been fooled too many damn times and I'm done being a damn fool! The worst is when they say bad shit to your kids, leave them out and leave me the hell alone.
crimson fire (4 months ago)
So your basically talking about stalking
Mary Motherofgod (4 months ago)
Keep it pushing people lolol
Safiya Ali (4 months ago)
one big endless dance, so tiring 🙄
Celena Oxley (4 months ago)
What if he calls from a blocked number and pretends it’s a wrong number? How do I respond? O Do?
Tonya Henry (4 months ago)
This mf stubborn he not like that
Amanda Barbolla (4 months ago)
Pop ups😃🤣🤣mhm
Help 4 Hire LLC (4 months ago)
I am in a new relationship from a guy who looked me up after 14 years. We were none sexual friends back then. He went out of town for a few days and I miss him but I haven’t initiated contact only responded. He didn’t call me all day yesterday but IM’d a clip to look at, I didn’t respond he text at 9 last night, HI I didn’t respond. He called me this morning really happy and said what’s up I miss u, I didn’t think I would but I did. I like u, your funny, I like hanging around u, u can cook too etccc... It’s working. Gotta stay cooolll
MoniLove444 (4 months ago)
Once you ignore me I block you and keep it moving.
Cynthia N (4 months ago)
Yes no contact can seem childish but if you look at it from a psychological point of view it’s teaching someone that their behavior is not ok. Think of it as punishment. Change your behavior and you’ll get a response. It really does work
Cynthia N (4 months ago)
I love this video! But control is an illusion
Santucci Pontarelli (4 months ago)
I'm not giving in I'm on non contact now
A J (4 months ago)
If you are a ex you are a ex for a reason..NO WE CANT BE FRIENDS...if you were not a good boyfriend...Ive been no contact for 6 years and he still tries to add me on social media every once in a while...still no contact....
Allyn (4 months ago)
I started the “no contact” with someone. I wasn’t sure if it was working. It’s been like 2 weeks and he hasn’t called or txt. So, i wasn’t sure if he even cared or noticed. But the other day I noticed a post he put up on social media. I felt like it was directed at me. I wasn’t sure if I was just being paranoid so I asked a couple friends what they thought. They agreed that it was directed at me. So, I guess it is working ?
Shooby Doo (4 months ago)
He posted a post on Instagram saying something about him having a "boat but where's the hoes?" That must be a subliminal
Mary Motherofgod (4 months ago)
Cock block u from everything lolol Ghost lolo
Diary of Tips (4 months ago)
I’m not about the games, if I stop talking to you it isn’t to gain control it’s because I refused to be disrespected or be mistreated and I’m done talking about it. Silence is golden. I can say far more with without saying anything.
dinky19810 (11 days ago)
Lies
Kazuki Minami (30 days ago)
That’s basically “getting more control”. May not be all of the control, you do feel like you have the right for some of it. Otherwise you wouldn’t do the method at all, you’d just let them trample on you continuously.
Yasmine M.P.R (2 months ago)
Sweets_Diary of Tips & Tricks!! Preach and that’s the same reason I do it as well if you wanna act for funny well I’ll be funny too
Rafał Chrząszcz (4 months ago)
1. My ex keeps liking everything I put on insta, she puts photos & hashtags that can remind me about our common situations. 2. I used to do such thing, ex. 'accidentially' passing by the shop she works (in a shopping mall) to make her seeing me, just waving her my hand and smile to her and pass along :)
Bobby Ibitoye (4 months ago)
Amazing content. Subbed asap
Lauren 34567 (4 months ago)
I cut off contact yesterday, he snap chatted me twice, I opened them, nothing today! Someone make me feel better 😭😭😭
madam lyné (4 months ago)
😂😂😂😂he said to me "are you single by choice or u cant get a man" on a meme he posted on his status...I was so angry lol as I am single n he knows that😂😂😂😂😂😂😂i swore him..and he got bk n swore me lol😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I DIED CAUSE I STILL DIDNT CONTACT HIM AFTER THAT😂😂😂😂😂n yes he does alllll of this😂😂😂😂
Ahhw E-Any (4 months ago)
:/ when they completely stop talking to you. 👍 It's working. I'm too a.d.d. for games. And if they're just simply being a prickish douche then that's cool too. Bc I'm still too a.d.d. yes, I said they're. Bc I'm too a.d.d. 😤 f all that dumb sh. There's guys out there who will automatically put everything out there and be nice. Unfortunately, a lot of the times they're boring so that must make me a b and too toxic. 😔🤷🏻‍♀️
Crystal Conaway (5 months ago)
I am during this no contact rule start today my boyfriend leave me he was cheating on me with another 👭 ugh.... I hope this works....
Aileen Sementha (5 months ago)
What if there's a kid involved than no contact doesn't work
Anji Z (5 months ago)
What do you do if they contact you during the no contact period? Is it not rude to ignore a text/call?
Lotus MUA (5 months ago)
When you are done with the relationship you shouldn’t want to know if it is working. What is “working” mean? Are you done or trying to accomplish something?
Monica Beatriz (5 months ago)
Can you talk about mammas boys?
Cee Black (5 months ago)
when i do da no contact method i b forgettn they num even be in my phone...kmsl😂😂😂😂
Lydia Brown (5 months ago)
🤣😪😭💖💖💖
Aquarius Bearer (5 months ago)
I dont get mad at disloyal ppl anymore i act like there dead
GIN 'S (5 months ago)
Thats nice bro
Shameless Facts (5 months ago)
How about stop being lame and just move on.....
Queen Dee (5 months ago)
But if he calls from another and you answer but then he quickly hangs up and you know it’s him?

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