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3 Signs the No-contact Method is Working

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Charles Frazier (3 days ago)
Nearly 2 months of no contact, almost broke no contact because she stole some personal items of mine. Then I stumbled upon this video and changed my whole perspective on the situation. She stole my stuff to secure a reaction from me and force me to contact her. I would’ve had to start over if I had reached out. Smh
Charles Frazier (3 days ago)
Thank you
donna thomas (7 days ago)
thanks chazz,it worked!!
Jo F (19 days ago)
""They had control in the beginning" very wise, my friend, very wise
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C T (1 month ago)
Indeed....NC is a marathon no doubt 100%
Sasan Maramkhah (1 month ago)
Easiest solution, give up
Sasan Maramkhah (1 month ago)
What if your ex blocks you... everyyywhere
gupi jas (1 month ago)
After 3weeks of NC what should I think of her? She didnt reach me at all...
D (1 month ago)
thanks so much bub, i needed to hear this message and reinforced how good the no contact is.
Vince Aumavae (1 month ago)
Yeah my ex has been throwing subliminals on social media for a minute and she discarded me lol😂😂😂
Focused and fabulous (1 month ago)
Why you removed your No contact videos from your channel? I wanted to watch them 😢
Anneke Dam (1 month ago)
I have watched a few videos of you and they gave me good tips, thank you. Compared with other advisers, you give us tools to handle ! I hate it if someone plays mindgames with me. Your mind is analizing constently to find away out. And that is so unhealthy for us. I am 2,5 years separeted after 11 years relationship. I noticed many times he is playing with my emotions. Had so much greave. Now i start to feel stronger he came every week at my door. Still manupilating... in all this time i was ofcourse hoping he changed and regrets the whole situation. Said blund want to come for sex but not a relationship! So finally i have to keep my door shut! No giving chances for "talks"
G. C. (1 month ago)
How about be two a mature adults and either work it out or be completely done. This sounds like some crap high school kids do.
Jameela Ferguson (1 month ago)
He hasnt change his mail from my house i just throw in the trash and i blocked it and his family
Hassan2Hilarious (1 month ago)
Does "no contact" work if we had a good mutual break up? (we broke up over religious differences & i'm the only one that regrets it)
A Cleveland (1 month ago)
1. Subliminals 2. Pop-ups 3. Reversing
D DeWitty (1 month ago)
He already has done 1&2. I dont care if he try #3 his ass been put on the straight to voicemail list. Im over it!!!
every thing (1 month ago)
I died at 0:39
Letina Day (2 months ago)
The way Chaz’s said #Dead giveaway 😂😂😂😂
Michelle White (2 months ago)
Okay this might be a stupid question but I’ll ask anyways Girl meets boy online. They both have strong feelings for each other. Guy rejected girl even though he still has feelings for her. Girl propose to be friends with him. He says it’s upto you. She says fine I don’t mind. A week later, she texted him saying I can’t be friends. I need to move on to find someone who wants to be with me. The guy knows the girl has very very strong feelings for him. She made it so obvious. She is on no contact. If she doesn’t contacts him at all, does that tell the guy that she is very strong woman and will eventually respects her by standing up for herself?
Ashley Rios Rizo (2 months ago)
Ashley Rios Rizo (2 months ago)
Lmao that phone call he made
Cad Red (2 months ago)
Am I missing something? They aren't here, isn't that enough? Is this about narcissists?
James Bowen (2 months ago)
It goes down in the dm 😂😂 😂😂 😂
Xavier Thompson (2 months ago)
Shit I changed my number that's my shift. I blocked him on all kind of social media. No video chats. He stubborn, He disrespect me, he's not going to pop up cause he has no way of knowing if my new boo is over at the crib or my job. Ain't no fun when the Rabbit got the gun.
Mrs Punkin (2 months ago)
If ur too grown to play games, why the Fucc are you Watching My boi Chaz’s Video’s.....🤷🏽‍♀️ take ur grown Ass to someone else no contact videos..... tf
G. C. (1 month ago)
Because we can dumbass
Mrs Punkin (2 months ago)
I thought I had a stalker
El P (2 months ago)
It's 2019 and ---- "WORD!"
R Kelly Scott (2 months ago)
Why when you have done nothing wrong in a relationship, your guy suddenly stop calling and finally blocks you from calling or texting and even blocks you from social media, advice me please
Star Williams (2 months ago)
Well I got blocked because of a fall out but I just got a call on Friday from that person saying that they missed me but they told me on god don’t call them so now what will that person reach out again
poundz stelling (2 months ago)
good stuff bro*****my situation are in line with your 3 signs ...🙏🙏🙏and am still ignoring her ...
Bri Clips (3 months ago)
Cherry Unknown (3 months ago)
Hi Chazz My boyfriend recently broke up with me because he got annoyed with the way I was texted. I admit I texted too much and I apologize to him for that. He just wants to be friends. I truely love him and he knows that. I never texted him eversince. Do you think that the no contact rule will work?
adoretay (3 months ago)
They cant send subs pop up or call blocked on everything 🤷🏾‍♀️
Angel Baby (3 months ago)
I did the no contact method for 30 days and he moved on with someone else lol
Ms Slimmint (3 months ago)
So question.. I went NO contact with ex narc BUT didnt blick her on Facebook.. On day 9 SHE blocked ME on FB even though i was NO contact.. Been 5 weeks NO contact... Why did she block ME wjen i had NO interest in contacting her?
Ms Slimmint (3 months ago)
@Observer Cerebusfire17 well been 4 weeks still have not.hmmmm
Observer Cerebusfire17 (3 months ago)
To get you curious enough to contact her.
Daisy M (3 months ago)
Just lock everything down and throw out the keys and move forward
La'Tree MsMorrow (3 months ago)
💕"A real women would contact me"...🤣🤣🤣
Andrea Nsuapim (3 months ago)
I'm doing this to my man now he's called 3 times back to back so i blocked the calls now.
Funtang Woo (3 months ago)
How long should no contact last for tho? Do you initiate after a month or two or leave it until they come back?
evadiva238 (4 months ago)
This no contact thing works, my ex called my job everyday after I blocked him on my cellphone & social media & then sent me flowers, chocolates and balloons to my house with a message saying he missed me sooooo much etc. boy bye lol
Chriscelia Edwards (4 months ago)
My ex wrote a song called 2 U 🤔 lol 😂 I'm like really all that mess you said no contact rule works
Heyy TJ (4 months ago)
Yes these things are true and effective. But effective for what? To give that person who hurt you, who couldn’t make up their mind, a chance to have to go through this process again? Don’t be stuck in ambiguity and love yourself, respect yourself. No contact is for the purpose of moving forward, not to lure back in the person that you once loved, trusted, and emotionally invested yourself into to hurt you again!
Allison Brown (4 months ago)
But he blocked me
akvalues (4 months ago)
I tried no contact now I dont wanna talk to her ass!!..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
wutang23361 (4 months ago)
He looks like Dave Chappell
sk8ergangsta2003 (4 months ago)
This video is so true. If youre not looking for it you wont even see it.
Kayla Brown (4 months ago)
For my Ex it doesn’t work ok he’s been contacting me for a help or regarding his dog which stays with me and after 4 months he’s not fighting for me just situation is even getting worst ..I think this is gonna work only for normal people mature man not who’s immature like me ex or narcissist...now I feel like I’m loosing him and I wanna do something where I think he should do this ...🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️
That Trash (4 months ago)
What if he unfriended and unfollowed you even blocked you at some media’s?
Success Cole (5 months ago)
With my no contact rule he said I should forgive him and i ask him if he was drunk😂😂😂😂
turukai (5 months ago)
Women are retarded
Britt Bry (5 months ago)
What if he looked at my insta story?
CALIDEE HOLMES (5 months ago)
My version of no contact..."YOU'RE FIRED!?" how hard is that to understand?... if these idiots are showing up in places you frequent after no contact...you have a psycho stalking you... they want control...not good...
Ruby Murrillo (5 months ago)
We were together 10 and a half years and then we broke up we went back with each other and then he said that he wanted to do his own thing then he told everybody he wanted to make things work out between us in a couple days ago he blocked me on Instagram Facebook on everything I don't know what to do to make him want me back 😭
Nas Nalbaz (5 months ago)
I’m on my 3rd day break up with my first ever beloved girlfriend I start dating her march 2018 and she said yes to me on 24th that month she said she doesnt want to lose me but here we are she said this: I dont think we should see eachother anymore I'm not in a good place right now 😔and I dont want to keep hurting you to be honest cause I know we havent been talking as much as we used to. And honestly I dont want to talk to anyone I just want to be alone. And I dont want you to take this the wrong way. She said she loves me too but she’s bot ready and she needs to get her life sorted before drag people into it. (And I was begging i said babe please) she said “Silly don’t beg for me never beg for a stupid girl.” And it’s not worth my effort and she’s not ready to be with someone. She doesn’t wanna date people that’s what i’m saying i’m not saying that I don’t wanna be friends.” I told her I’m wait for you til everything in yohr life is sorted out. And she responded “No I don’t want to hold you back you’ll find better.”😔 (She said she don’t wanna lose me but she’s bot even fighting for me and for us.” She said it’s not fair to me but I told her I’m totally fine waiting til you feel better and everything in her life is sorted out. DO I STILL HAVE A CHANCE TO GET HER BACK? In the future? HELP ANY ADVICE i really love her want her back I guess she decided to end it cause I have nothing to offer her i don’t have a car or anything don’t have a hight paying job or maybe she had lost attraction to me and fell out of love. I send a messgae to her did you lose interest and attraction to me and fell out of love? She just ignored it
Edward Zamora (4 months ago)
Deon Soto your acting desperate, just stop. Work on yourself make yourself the prize and she’ll realize what she lost out on. She’s testing to see how strong you are. Never chase.
Abigail Evans (5 months ago)
Thank you so much for posting this!!!
Kendra Bennett (5 months ago)
All narco paths do subliminals. My sociopath military affeliated ex used to write things on the dry erase board about how he watched me sleel and I'm a beautiful angel 🙅 eww. I look young and he was also trying to have me help him lewer the neighbors daughter as a target. It struck me as odd even before I woke up. I was like" why would you want to take a strangers daughter to a secluded area" he would get a twitch for killing too and ask me to go to the lake when we first started "dating" aka him grooming me! 😰
Lyric Ceo (5 months ago)
sue s (5 months ago)
sk8ergangsta2003 (5 months ago)
Dead giveaway! God damnit, take my like Sir.
TheKilla063 (5 months ago)
Kennnedy London (5 months ago)
Some people can say this method should only be for cutting someone completely off. But I love who I love. But I need to love myself! I’ve been so tied into trying to teach and open my lovers eyes... it’s draining!!! Like I have a child. Shit will only be cool for so long til I see that Shit hasn’t changed, there’s manipulation along the lines, dependency... we not even together yet but this is while talking and having sexual relations for atleast 5 months now. It’s draining. I am in control and have been, I made some errors in the beginning but I need to get myself together. As I have growing to do in my life right now, so does she. I can’t teach her to grow up and wake her up, life has to help her with that. She has to grow from her own struggle. I can only help her so fuckin much man. In the most humble way, I’m being selfish for once. Me “cutting her off” is the only way that I can get to myself without being sucked back in with manipulation. I need to take care of myself and will succeed in doing so. God bless everybody and their relations!
Crystal S (5 months ago)
Wombat Happiness Girl (5 months ago)
Hahahahaha your expressions are funny but hey good advice 🙏🏽😂🙌🏽
Nii Narku (5 months ago)
Breaking up is not always a bad thing. Sometimes it teaches you a life lesson about yourself, others and situations. It helps you identify you weakness and strengths. So the no contact helps you identify yourself.
John Llewellyn (5 months ago)
If you have a real connection with someone, it can happen, both people don't want to be first to make a move, all about ego for men and women, fked up but true, so many people part because of ego,
BinaBina (5 months ago)
How about if he watches my Instastory. Been broken up 4 months and NC at all. Why is he doing that? To keep me as a friend?! Any thoughts? Thanks 🙏
BinaBina (4 months ago)
NickeyNichole White I did girlfriend! 🙏 Miss him still 🙈
NickeyNichole White (4 months ago)
BinaBina block him
Christopher Brooks (6 months ago)
Damn that's good
Carol Loraine (6 months ago)
Do homework on Narcissists. And if any Red Flags apply? Run!! Never look back! Beware of diseases!
Alejandro Rosa (6 months ago)
Its been a week and she started calling me 7 times a day and she got the nerve to message me on twitter lol
highly favored (6 months ago)
You're good! This applies to guys and ladies. Thanks! 😘
Chriscelia Edwards (6 months ago)
I Love ♥️ this Channel
Nadhia Gurrola (6 months ago)
He is a naughty little man
Nicole Tobey (6 months ago)
Hi Chaz, It's been 7 weeks no contact and the only thing he's done is unblock me on facebook. He slowly let go over many months, recently was found kissing a woman that tried to come in between us when we were together (we were broken up when they kissed), and in hindsight of all he's said and the way he's acted, it feels like reaching out to him will be on deaf ears. He has low self esteem, grew up with very little affection, moved out at 15, had a child on purpose at 18, had a toxic and volatile 19 year marriage (I was his first long term relationship after his divorce. His divorce decree actually came a couple months after we met and were seeing each other). AND he has an avoidant attachment style. He has said many painful things like: "Why do you love me?", "I wish you'd meet someone else", "You need to move on" and this past November when I asked him in a text "Do you love me anymore? Yes or no" his response was "Farewell no". The pain is the worst I have ever experienced. I'm 46 and have never lived through such pain. It feels worse than death. Not discounting people grieving over someone that has died but I have never felt this agony. However, I AM a lot better than even 3-4 weeks ago-no more cold surges in my chest, no more dry-heaving, no more shakiness, and my focus is much better. I've joined a hiking group, the gym, am now volunteering at our local animal shelter which I've been wanting to do for years, am journaling, doing positive affirmations, smiling in the mirror to myself, and am socializing more. My counselor has told me two weeks in a row that I am doing amazing. So, I recognize that the hardest pain is behind me but of course, I still miss him tremendously, cry, and life is not the same. I miss my best friend. I know that writing the letter should be more for me than getting back together but I still want to reconnect so much. Timing is so questionable right now. I genuinely believe that NOW is the time to send the letter and not wait 3 months (which would be early/mid February). I think this because of where he was a few months ago and now 7 weeks of no contact/positive memory resurgence, and my self growth. What is your opinion on the timing? Thank you SO VERY MUCH for your help and guidance! Much appreciation, good vibes, and love, Nicole
Nicole Tobey (3 months ago)
It’s now been 4 1/2 months no contact. I’m sending them a hand written letter this weekend.
cynthia porter (3 months ago)
What happened?
francisco gonzalez (6 months ago)
ive been going no contact for 4 days with a narcissistic girl i barely meft abot 3 months ago. refused to have sex with her for the reason that im not a fuck boy. the results are looking good hope yall can keep your heads up. ✌💪🙌🙏
Lisa Vines (6 months ago)
Gillian Moody (6 months ago)
He hasn’t contacted me, except to respond to me, every few months.
Kilig and Games (6 months ago)
What if we’re both playing the no contact game 😅
TheSnowFoxParty (6 months ago)
Good point lol
Celestia Carson (6 months ago)
What if I dont have fb and have no interest in looking at his fb then how would I know hes doing the subliminal thing?
Thamsanqa Dube (6 months ago)
No contact= done with bullshit. If you're doing it to take control that's just plain manipulation and mind games, it ain't right even when it's directed at a player
Brooklynn Skyy (6 months ago)
So what if he views my insta story is that considered subliminal?
lewis robinson (6 months ago)
Playing games for little kids ... I’ll just say fuck it
The Lili&dre Show (6 months ago)
lol no contact means no CONTACT. that means NO social media, blocked calls.
Egg Rollz (6 months ago)
This girl sent me nudes then told me to fuck off when I tried to buy her food this is how I know I shifted into a parallel reality because in the reality im from this if she sends you nudes that means shes interested and no girl turns down food even if shes not into you cause lowkey girls are always hungry if anyone can help me get back to my reality please respond to this comment
300.Gucci Gang (6 months ago)
Yea it’s working alright right with another guys dick in her mouth
Null & Void (6 months ago)
Sometimes no-contact is just giving someone time to miss you. Imagine how boring life would be if you never wondered. Also, some people are just busy with real life shit. Don't always assume it's a game. Only insecure people will throw a tantrum. People who are being productive and are confident won't mind not speaking to someone for days because they have their own shit to worry about.
ClipperCuts Tv (6 months ago)
📢Don't let them draw you out.
Steve Chevy (6 months ago)
Some ones playing so crazy ass techno out side my house holy shit it's kinda badass
HatchetFam Entertainment (6 months ago)
No contact works
Kizzi Kimani (6 months ago)
I just experienced pop up on 2days ago... I said hi and I got very bad eye like am alright...
Randy Flores (6 months ago)
Sometimes the best revenge is not giving an answer, you see silence is never misquoted
realnigga 301 (6 months ago)
Why tf is he helping women but not men
Every body is not on social media
Liam Parker (6 months ago)
I'm no contact and my ex is trying to make me jealous on social media with pics at the club and commenting on boys posts , I've stopped looking but I think she is over it despite messaging me before saying she was over me
Shelly Meador (6 months ago)
What if they move out of state? Could no contact bring them back?? Please let me know
Charlie O'Callaghan (7 months ago)
For my ex I dumped them and went no contact after they talked about not being interested in me. So I took control back, dumped them, and then they try to say “sorry my phone was dead” which is the reverse method in the video. I’m so proud that I gained control and it hit my ex in the face for it
Pamela Cooper-Billips (7 months ago)
Damn, I love you!❤️
jnanesh jaan (7 months ago)
I hav blocked her number..is it okay during no contact ?
Tiffany Johnson (7 months ago)
Ohh he does look good in blue. Ok

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